This is the third post in a series titled “Adopting Graves”, where I’ve enjoyed sharing my journey of adopting and researching two graves during the autumn season. For previous posts, visit Adopting Graves: A New Autumn Tradition (2013) and Adopting Graves: Some genealogy on our little Johnnie and his family.
Clara’s headstone from my first visit.
Beginning genealogy research through Ancestry.com can be incredibly addictive and time consuming. This new hobby has given me my first opportunity to try it. I’ve filled up nearly ten pages on a legal pad with notes on both Johnnie and Clara, the two souls and graves that I’ve adopted this season. Of course, this is more info than anyone would ever need to know. But even though these families were strangers to me before now, it has been great fun… fun of the nerdly variety. In researching information on Clara, I have had the good fortune of getting in contact with a nice woman named Gayla Liles. Gayla is a great niece of Clara and has supplied me with the information and photos shared in this post. Since Gayla lives in New Mexico and no other family members live near, I have been able to share photos of the unseen Gegenbauer family plot and headstones with her. It feels good… and it makes it seem like there’s a real purpose to this new tradition, rather than just being a strange nerd who blogs about these things. It has been an honor to talk to Gayla and I thank her very much for the hard work and information researched and gathered.
Clara I. Gegenbauer, March 29, 1884 – March 17, 1889
Clara was the fourth out of eight children by parents Eugene Gegenbauer (1847 – 1916) and Isabelle Coulter Gegenbauer (1853 – 1930). Like Johnnie (see last post), there is no record of how or why Clara died at such a young age. Her father Eugene (whose parents immigrated from Germany) and mother Isabelle (whose parents immigrated from Ireland) were married in 1876. After immigrating, Clara’s paternal grandfather was a physician and teacher in the Ballwin, Missouri area. He died in 1880.
A young and handsome Eugene Gegenbauer, Clara’s father.
A young Isabelle Coulter Gegenbauer, Clara’s mother.
An older Isabelle Coulter Gegenbauer. I love this photo. You can just see wisdom in her eyes.
Isabelle and children. I’m not sure if Clara is a part of this photo or what year it was taken. According to my research and this photo, they lived on a farm in the Meramec/St. Louis area. I just love the house!
Out of the family’s eight children, Eugene and Isabelle had 7 grandchildren, including my new friend Gayla’s father. Clara’s last remaining sibling, Jane Sophia “Jennie” Gegenbauer, was Gayla’s grandmother. She died in 1976.
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This Labor Day weekend marks two weeks since I adopted Johnnie and Clara’s graves. I hope to make a return visit to both. It will certainly be more meaningful now that I know more about these two families.
August 28th, 2013 at 1:16 am
Love this post, Patrick! Thank you so much. <3
September 4th, 2013 at 11:39 pm
As always, you’re welcome, Maria!
August 28th, 2013 at 5:29 am
Very interesting…and I love that you care so much about what you set out to do…
September 4th, 2013 at 11:40 pm
Thank you, CJ. It’s a new thing for me. I’ve learned a lot and have had fun with it.
August 28th, 2013 at 11:29 am
Beautiful work. I’m planning a new thing at the blog, where I do a quick weekly roundup of good posts by my blog-friends. Haven’t figured out exactly how I want to approach it yet, but I’ll be including this when I do it.
September 4th, 2013 at 11:41 pm
That also sounds like a cool idea. I’d be honored! Thanks Renae!
August 28th, 2013 at 12:29 pm
OMGoodness! I love this series! I haven’t been able to spend time reading here and have missed it so far! Can’t wait until I have time to read them all. Love this kind of stuff.
September 4th, 2013 at 11:44 pm
I’m not always good at catching all of your wonderful posts, but I’ve been inspired on more than one occasion. Do you use Ancestry.com in much of your research?
September 5th, 2013 at 8:59 am
I do not have a membership to Ancestry but have a tree there. For my dad’s story most of the research I have done has been on the internet. Thankfully there is a lot of information on WWII where people can find them. Your adopting people is amazing. Maybe someday I can do as you. I find it so interesting! Great Job Patrick!
September 8th, 2013 at 2:30 pm
Thank you, Nancy. It is an honor to hear those words from you.